Sorry.... it's a long message, but I figure it will help see if we are compatable....
So...
I have been in the UK for 2 years.
I chose Liverpool for two reasons
1.The Job
2.The people are friendlier than down south, (plus the girls can really dress sexy)

I am a professional.

My hobbies have been rugby (no surprises there), dragon boating, wind surfing, musician; I love the water and speed.
Currently I have just joined the gym.

Below are some of my beliefs, likes and dislikes :

•Lets dance 'bump and grind' up close, in the middle of a packed dance floor .

•Ideal 1st date would involve a heavy dose of romance or chemistry, and sex is ok too :)

•I don’t really enjoy hours at the pub chatting… I’d rather go dancing, have a niice meal with a few friends, fly to paris or spain for a weekend get away, carting or play paint ball or snuggle up in front of the TV.

•I guess you could say I travel, It's I have done for the past 2 years…but my heart is in New Zealand.

•If you shout and are abusive when you get mad… please don’t reply to my ad… I avoid people who think they have the right to abuse others using anger as their justification.

•Family is important, I have 2 kids and they are my major reason for existing.

•Although I’m not ‘Brad Pitt’, I am comfortable with my body and I'd hope you are with yours too.

•Age is in the mind… So even if physically we and not the same age… we just might be mentally ...and that’s what really counts.

•I don’t keep a huge net work of friends, I prefer 1 - 5 friends. Much easier to go to dinner and dancing or jumping in a 4x4 and going to the lake district etc...

•I think I’m a confident shy boy…I like to be in the back ground, but I am a natural leader, especially at work.

•Some times I can be messy at home… But I am reasonably house trained, I vacuum and wash dishes etc... other times when I start a project I am unstoppable… I tend to go in bursts rather than a consistent one mode (It could bug you if you’re a constant tidy freak);

•My mother is a lesbian and I grew up with this as a normal thing… I really don’t care if you have a history like this… in some ways it’s probably better if you do, because you’d fit in with my belief system… I really don’t mind if your bisexual or curious.

•Religion- hmm it fucks up too many lives, I think being spiritual is good, but don’t push it on to others, it’s meant to be your personal relationship with your god / spirit / what ever you think is ‘IT’.

•Open minded – Try most things once! Just for the memories when you’re grey (as long as no ones getting hurt). If you like it, repeat… quite simple really… I will also do some thing for my partner too,

•A touchy subject (literally)… porn! I actually like to watch it some times (no it’s not on 27/7). I really don’t see it as an issue, again it can be fun if handled correctly (excuse the slight sexual implication there, and yes it was deliberate).

•I love watching comedies (Monty python types) or slow movies too (Shaw shank), chick flicks (ok I’ll hand my man card in after the movie), action (love jujitsu type – Segal for example), horrors (makes a girl snuggle closer, can that really be bad?), in fact if it’s good I’ll watch it.

•I like to cook, (I didn’t say I’m a great cook) so my ideal house would have an open plan kitchen / lounge so cooking and talking to friends and family was all part of the process.

OK, I have typed too much and some things need to be unspoken, so they can be discovered… that’s part of the fun isn't it?

Drop me an email (johnnythekiwi@googlemail.com) and I will reply...

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